Scribbling a bit of information and experiences.

Part 1 :   Humans natural instinct is to dream about all what they want in life.. the position they wanna achieve, the partner they wanna have, the moments they wanna live, the things they wanna have, some experiences they wanna have and also some moments they wanna delete from their life.  We dream, we plan and then act on them.. sometimes we do not get the favourable results...thus  leaving us in a state of confusion and a war starts between our mind and heart. Life is full of co incidences... sometimes we are not able to understand whether its fate or destiny.   So, lets first understand the difference between fate and destiny. Fate refers to the development of events beyond a person's control, regarded as predetermined by a supernatural power or an impersonal force. It is an inevitable progression of occurrences that happen, often considered to be set in motion by cosmic or divine will.   Fate is typically seen as fixed and unchangeable. whereas Destin...

Every living being is fighting their own battle. Everyone is in wait to achieve something or to hear from someone or to change their current situation. When we pray to our maximum and beg Allah for worldly matters, a day comes when our heart gets tired of all this. We get hopeless and negative ending up into a frustrated individuals. It's all the play of Satan. Then comes a time when we start recognizing our purpose here in this world and start asking Allah for strength to face our battles instead of anything else. We ask from Him, the power to stay firm on His religion, the faith to walk on Sirat-Al-Mustaqeem ( The Straight Path ) and a better place in the Hereafter. As it is stated in the Holy Quran : " The life of this world is only the enjoyment of deception." ( 3:185 ) We waste our years and years, in connecting to our real purpose. As we are born, we are taught to follow the daily grind, fulfill our responsibilities and follow the rat race ,then, one day we die with...

 It's important to understand that the youth of today is going through a lot of changes and it becomes difficult for them to navigate their emotions. Old times were gold times but now the environment is becoming very challenging for an individual to survive. There are many reasons for violence in youth and trigger factors which will be discussed below. It's mandatory to listen to them and try to understand the perspective of this generation and also to encourage them to find healthy ways to deal with emotions. Violence  “An extreme form of aggression used to damage someone or destroy something and cause harm.” The terms violence and aggression coincide with each other. Aggression  ‘Any behavior or act aimed at harming a person or animal or damaging a physical property.’ This violence, aggression, irritability, frustration and anger are commonly observed in teenagers. This must be resolved to create a positive social environment.   Reasons of Violence ...

​ URDU “Are you from Urdu Medium or English Medium?”  This was the third question followed by the interviewer after asking my name and education. I starred him up for a while and then answered, “English Medium.” The interview continued and all what I was thinking about during the whole time sitting on the chair that, “Was that question suppose to be a part of the interview?” “Why have we put English Language before our Urdu Language?” “Why is it important to have grip on a foreign language (English) rather than on our national language (Urdu)?” “Are we still under pressure of the English people?” Urdu is a really beautiful language. It’s a mixture of different other languages. Other names used for Urdu are Rekhta, Hindavi, Urdu-e-Muallah, Lahori and Dehlavi. Rekhta is a Persian word that means ‘to create a mixture.’ Urdu is the mother language of Pakistan after independence in 1947. It is broadly spoken and understood in Pakistan. Urdu is taught as a compulsory subject in both Ur...

  Allah loves it when we ask from Him , when we ask for things we need or people we want in our life , when we ask Him again and again . He loves this gesture of ours. He gets happy when we ask from Him like a child , who is pure in heart and innocent in intentions.  We don’t know what we are asking for , is good for us or not , but He knows. So , sometimes, He doesn’t give us what we want instead He blesses us what is best for us . Because He is Allah , the All - Knowing , He knows all what was in the past and all what will be in the future . He knows all what we show openly and all what we hide inside our hearts .  When we cry in front of Him for worldly matters , He calms our heart and as tears flow from our eyes , we get rid of our worldly desires and He fills our heart with His love and we find peace. As is said in The Holy Quran :  “Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace .”  ( Al-Quran 13:28 ) 

  I have seen people going through traumatic events in their lives and those events still affect how they feel about themselves today. Almost all of us go through this and often wonder  How to heal from trauma ? Healing from trauma is a time taking process. Learning about trauma , reading articles and books on it is a part of healing process. In this blog you ll get to read some causes , signs and symptoms and ways how to heal from trauma.      Trauma is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone. It has serious consequences both for its victims and for the society. Trauma leads one into an inferiority complex and thus disturbing the social and personal life of the individual and also making it difficult for their closed ones to cope with them.  Causes of Childhood Trauma : Direct trauma exposure  Witnessing trauma  Or learning about trauma that happened to a close friend or relative . This results in distress , post traumatic stress...