Scribbling a bit of information and experiences.

  Allah loves it when we ask from Him , when we ask for things we need or people we want in our life , when we ask Him again and again . He loves this gesture of ours. He gets happy when we ask from Him like a child , who is pure in heart and innocent in intentions.  We don’t know what we are asking for , is good for us or not , but He knows. So , sometimes, He doesn’t give us what we want instead He blesses us what is best for us . Because He is Allah , the All - Knowing , He knows all what was in the past and all what will be in the future . He knows all what we show openly and all what we hide inside our hearts .  When we cry in front of Him for worldly matters , He calms our heart and as tears flow from our eyes , we get rid of our worldly desires and He fills our heart with His love and we find peace. As is said in The Holy Quran :  “Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace .”  ( Al-Quran 13:28 ) 

  I have seen people going through traumatic events in their lives and those events still affect how they feel about themselves today. Almost all of us go through this and often wonder  How to heal from trauma ? Healing from trauma is a time taking process. Learning about trauma , reading articles and books on it is a part of healing process. In this blog you ll get to read some causes , signs and symptoms and ways how to heal from trauma.      Trauma is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone. It has serious consequences both for its victims and for the society. Trauma leads one into an inferiority complex and thus disturbing the social and personal life of the individual and also making it difficult for their closed ones to cope with them.  Causes of Childhood Trauma : Direct trauma exposure  Witnessing trauma  Or learning about trauma that happened to a close friend or relative . This results in distress , post traumatic stress...

 I remember that day when I was talking to my friend during the ‘Urdu’ lecture ( inter part 1 ki baat hai ) and sir pointed me out in front of the whole class and said “ tum jaise bache na khud parhte hain na kisi ko parhne daite hain”  I can never forget jo us time feel kiya tha maine but I didn’t answer him anything qk vo ‘ustaad sahb’ hain or papa kehte hain k “ustadoon ka ehteraam lazim hai”  Next week , Urdu ka test tha , sir class mai aye or sheets distribute krna shuru kar dein. Meray pass aye to kehte “tumhe akhari 15 minute mai sheet dnga tumhe konsa test ata hoga” I was amazed . “kiya aik ustaad ka ye rawaiya hona chahiyee ?” Par khair mujhe akhari 15 minute mai sheet mili to maine likhna shuru kiya . Sir mujhe kehte k “sheet bharne se kuch nahi hoga” . Mai us time chup nai reh saki or kaha k “Sir , sheet nai waste krti apki , concise but complete likhngi”  Test collect krne k baad sab se pehle sir ne mera test check kiya . Phir kehte “Ye tum ne kaise likh ...

How to overcome sadness ?  “I am sad”, these words are revolving around the Earth as it is revolving around its orbit. Why so? Is it awkward to feel sad? Am I alone in this? Probably , these questions arise in one’s mind when a person is in state of sadness especially when one can’t understand the reason for being sad. So in search of solutions , we go browsing How to overcome sadness? No doubt , it is one of the common most feelings witnessed by us today. The feeling of sadness, loneliness or even hopelessness ends up a person in state of depression. It becomes really difficult to cope up with yourself when in this phase when you are seeing darkness all around and inside you. Don’t you think it’s all a collection of negative emotions? Don’t you wanna know the root causes and cure to sadness? Don’t you wanna know How to overcome sadness? Come Along… The feeling of sadness without any reason is defined by the term “Lypophrenia” Our young generation is suffering from this state in fa...